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The Basics
こちら, そちら, あちら, and どちら are a set of こそあど words. They are used to refer to directions and places, but can also be used with people, groups, things, or sides.
In general, こちら is used for a direction or a place that is close to the speaker, そちら for one that's close to the listener, or relatively far from both the listener and the speaker, and あちら is for one that's close to neither of them.
どちら is the question word that goes with this set, and it means "which one?" out of a choice of two directions, places, people, or the like. どちら can also ask "who?" or "where?" politely.
こっち, そっち, あっち, and どっち are contractions of こちら, そちら, あちら, and どちら. They refer to exactly the same things, in a more casual way. The only exception is どっち, which only means "which one?" out of two choices, but not "who?" or "where?"
Conceptualizing こそあど
There are nine basic sets of words in Japanese that begin with こ, そ, あ, and ど. They have different meanings and functions depending on the endings that come after こそあど.
What's more, all these sets share the same concept ー the first syllable of each word in the set indicates the relative distance between you and whatever you're referring to. The relative distance from your listener to the thing you're referring to can also come into play.
Here is how こそあど words work when referring to a physical object that you can see:
こ-Words: Words that begin with こ are used for things that are either relatively close to the speaker, or closer to the speaker than to the listener.
そ-Words: Words that begin with そ are used for things that are further from the speaker and/or are closer to the listener.
あ-Words: Words that begin with あ are used for things that are far from the speaker, and also the listener if there is one.
ど-Words: Words that begin with ど are used to ask a question.
If you'd like to read scenarios that illustrate these concepts and learn more about how they work, check out our こそあど hub page!
Patterns of Use
こちら, そちら, あちら, and どちら (こっち, そっち, あっち, and どっち) can be used in sentences in, more or less, the same way as nouns.
- あっちに行こう。
- Let's go over there.
- こちらとそちら、どちらがいいですか？
- Out of this one and that one, which one would you like?
Like nouns, these words can also be attached to another noun with the particle の.
- どちらのスカートになさいますか。
- Which skirt would you like?
- こちらのスカートにします。
- I'll go with this skirt.
こちら, そちら, あちら for Directions and Places
こちら, そちら, and あちら (こっち, そっち, and あっち) can be used to refer to a direction. In this case, they are the equivalent of "this way," "that way," or "that way over there" in English.
Let's take a look at an example that uses a casual conversation. Imagine you and your friend are hiking and come across a forked road. Unfortunately, the track sign is old and illegible, so you wonder which path to take:
- こっちの道かな、それともそっちかな？
- Is it this way or that way?
You can also use こっち, そっち, and あっち to say "here," "there," and "over there." So in the same scenario, if you find another path, you may say:
- あ、ねえ見てみて。あっちにも道があるよ。
- Oh, hey look! There is also a path over there.
In this case, you could choose to replace あっち with あそこ, which is a こそあど word specifically for locations. The difference is that, while あそこ simply points to a location that's distant from where you are, あっち indicates you are pointing to a distant location and comparing it with at least one other option.
こちら, そちら, あちら for Things
こちら, そちら, あちら (こっち, そっち, あっち) can also be used for objects and things. In this case, they are the equivalent of "this one," "that one," and "that one over there" in English.
So let's say you are at a bakery and wondering which cake to pick. You can say:
- こっちにしようかな。あ、でもそっちもおいしそう。あああ、でもあっちのケーキも気になるー！
- I think I'll go with this one. Oh, but that one looks delicious too. Ah, but I'm also interested in that cake over there!
In this example, you use casual expressions because what you are saying is self-directed. If the person behind the counter hears you deliberating, they might say the following to help you decide:
- 今ですと、こちらのピーチのケーキが旬でおいしいですよ。
- Right now, this peach cake is in season and it's delicious.
Here, the staff would usually use the more polite こちら to pay respect to you, the customer.
どちら for "Which One?" Out of Two Choices
The question word that comes with this set is どちら (どっち), and it's used to ask "which one?" Unlike こちら, そちら, あちら, which can be used with any number of choices, どちら is only used when there are just two choices.
So in the same scenario of being at a bakery, if you narrow your choice of cake down to two, you could say:
- どっちにしようかな。
- I wonder which of the two to get.
However, at the beginning when you were wondering which cake to pick out of a wide array of selections, you would use a different question word, どれ, and say:
- どれにしようかな。
- I wonder which one to get.
Beyond the Basics
こちら, そちら, あちら for People
You can also use こちら, そちら, and あちら (こっち, そっち, あっち) to casually refer to a person or a group of people.
In this case, these words can simply refer to a person who is physically present, like "this person," "that person," and "that person over there." But they can also be used to refer to someone who is out of sight, often because you're communicating remotely.
For example, if you are talking to your friend on the phone for the first time in a long time, you may ask things like:
- こっちは元気だよ。そっちは？
- I'm doing well. How about you?
We're all doing well. How about you all?
Here, こっち translates to "I" or "we" and そっち translates "you" or "you all." These directional words suggest you are talking about the person or people on your side and on their side.
If you are talking about a third person or group of people, they can be referred to as あっち, as in:
- あっちもみんな元気にしてるみたいだよ。
- I heard they are also doing well.
In formal speaking or writing, you'd switch こっち, そっち, and あっち to こちら, そちら, and あちら.
- お陰様で、こちらは皆元気に過ごしています。
- Thankfully, everyone here is doing well.
どちら for "Who?" or "Where?"
Both どちら and どっち can mean "which person?" or "which place?" out of two choices.
- どちらの女性がタイプですか？
どっちの女性がタイプ？ - Which woman is your type?
- どちらの場所に行きたいですか？
どっちの場所に行きたい？ - Which place would you like to go to?
However, only どちら can be used to directly ask "who?" or "where?" politely.1 When asking "who?" どちら is commonly followed by 様, as in:
- どちら様ですか？
- May I ask who this is?
- どちらまでお出かけですか？
- Where are you off to?
こちら, そちら, あちら with 〜こそ
〜こそ emphasizes the word that comes before it. It's often used with こちら, そちら, and あちら (こっち, そっち, あっち) when they are referring to people.
This combination of words is only used to express opposition to what someone else has said or done. For example, imagine you quarrel with your partner and they ask you for an apology. In this case, your partner can't refer to you as そっちこそ because they are the first one to ask for the apology. In this case, they may just say:
- 謝れよ！
- Apologize!
However, if you disagree and think that they should be the one to apologize, you can counter by emphasizing そっち with こそ, and say:
- そっちこそ、謝ったら？
- Why don't YOU apologize?
Here, そっち indicates your opposition to こっち, and こそ emphasizes the comparison.
This expression is not only used in negative situations. For example, in the same scenario, let's say your partner actually apologizes to you first. If you also feel bad and want to apologize, you can say:
- こっちこそ、ごめんね。
- I am sorry too.
The polite version of こっちこそ, which is こちらこそ, is also common. It's used a lot in Japanese conversation, particularly as a standard reply to certain expressions. For example, if someone thanks you, you may thank them back by saying:
- こちらこそ、有難うございます。
- I'm the one who should be saying thank you.
This is a very common way to respond to thanks. You can simply say こちらこそ on its own, too. Many Japanese speakers say this in response to thanks more frequently than they might say どういたしまして ("you're welcome").
If someone says よろしくお願いします to you, you may say よろしくお願いします back to them with こちらこそ.
- こちらこそ、よろしくお願いします。
- It's I who should be saying "please take care of me."
You can also say こっちの方こそ or こちらの方こそ in a more formal conversation.
こちらのもの
You've learned こちら can indicate you, or the people in your group, when you are addressing others. With the particle の and もの (thing), you can create this expression: こちらのもの.
こちらのもの literally means "the thing on my/our side," or more simply, "my/our thing." This expression is used to express that you think something positive will happen to you, and often those associated with you too, for a specific reason.
For example, imagine you just found out Michael Jordan is joining your basketball team for the next match. This makes you very confident your team will win the game. In this case, you can use こちらのもの and say:
- マイケルがうちのチームに来るなら、勝負はこちらのものだ。
- If Michael joins our team, we'll surely win.
(Literally: If Michael joins our team, this game will be ours.)
I hope this announcement wasn't just a jōdan, or 冗談 (joke), and Michael Jordan really joins your team!
Finally, you can replace こちらのもの with こっちのもの in a casual conversation.